Tuesday, October 2, 2012

So Many Places

I have left my heart in so many places. 

I haven't quite wrapped my mind around it, but it's time to say goodbye to this semester, to all of the amazing people I've come to know and love, and to this crazy beautiful, diverse, troubled, and wonderful place that is Peru. I will miss it all. And yet, I am so excited to return home, to see my family, friends, and fiance, and to prepare for whatever new adventure life throws for me. 


This has, without a doubt, been the semester of a lifetime: 
I watched the sun set over the ocean.
I settled into a new house and university.
I played in magical fountains.
I swam in the Pacific.
I saw sea lions and penguins at the Islas Palominos.
I went sandboarding and dune-buggy riding in the desert and watched the most beautiful sunset.
I flew over the Nazca Lines.
I saw mummies. 
I visited the oldest civilization in the Americas. 
I celebrated Semana Santa with festivals, bull pulls, and enormous candle-lit floats.
I was proposed to in the most magical spot in the world. 
I visited ruins in the heart of the city.
I traveled to Machu Picchu and hiked this mountain.
I ventured off the beaten path and had my breath taken away.
I volunteered in a city built on a sand dune and met some of the strongest people I know.
                                                 
I wandered into the jungle and spent a week learning and volunteering.
I celebrated my 20th birthday.
I made it back to the jungle where I saw river dolphins, held a sloth, and swam in the Amazon.
I learned about Afro-Peruvian culture in El Carmen.
I celebrated Inti Raymi in Incan ruins.
I flew over Lima as a goodbye.
I traveled to Cieneguilla and went horseback riding.

I visited the girls' shelter in Cusco one last time.

I toured Cusco on my own for a day.
I visited a yacht club in Chorrillos with my host family.
And I said goodbye to some of the best friends I've ever had! 

*Apologies. This post was written months ago and I never got around to posting it*


Saturday, June 30, 2012

All the Joy You'll Find

Think of all the joy you'll find, when you leave the world behind, and bid all your cares goodbye.
You can fly! You can fly! -- Peter Pan 

My last two weeks in Lima have flown by (pun intended) and they have been full of presentations, tests, papers, and, of course, some amazing experiences! And, although Lima, with its constant noise, its air pollution, its crime, its concrete, and its constant cloudiness, is not by any means my favorite place in this incredible country, these last two weeks have definitely helped me to find some joy here as well! 


 First, the one truly negative thing that has happened during my whole four months in Peru: I got robbed. I was in Villa El Salvador by myself walking to the bus stop and pulled my camera out of my backpack really quick to take a photo of a soccer game for my fútbol-obsessed friend Ava, when all of a sudden a guy ran up and snatched it out of my hand. I grabbed onto his shirt and held on for dear life-- yelling like a bilingual maniac, hitting him, and trying to get it back. He got loose and took off, with me in pursuit until a "get-away moto" came along yelling "Sube! Sube! Sube!" (Get on! Get on! Get on!) and they disappeared. Definitely unfortunate. Definitely could have been a lot worse. And, although there are uncool people like my thief in Villa, I also met a couple of really nice people that same day: Earlier in the day, a moto driver gave me an extra long and completely free ride when he found out I was a volunteer and, after being robbed and looking like a very sad gringa standing in the street, another driver gave me a free lift to the bus stop. Just a little more proof for my strong belief that there are good and bad people everywhere. 

Besides that one sad incident, the last two weeks have been pretty awesome! I love finals and term papers! Hahaha I kid, I kid. But, so far at least, I have survived them and had some very fun times in between. Last Friday evening we had a "despedida" or goodbye party in the IFSA office with all of our professors, host families, and patas. Then on Saturday night, our group headed to the Brisas del Titicaca restaurant for a delicious dinner and show. We got to watch lots of tradition Peruvian dances, listen to music, and even do a little dancing ourselves! Although it was a late night-- we left the restaurant sometime around 2 a.m.-- it was a great time with all the friends I've made this semester and a good chance to keep practicing that salsa dancing! 

Sunday, Kaylie and I headed back to Pachacamac, the ruins south of Lima, for the celebration of the summer solstice called Inti Raymi. The celebration was beautiful! Participants were dressed in elaborate and colorful costumes and performed acrobatic tricks, dances, and music. Meanwhile, offerings were being made to Pachamama, Mother Earth, and towards the end of the ceremony we all hugged and wished each other a happy new year-- there's nothing like being squeezed tight by a four foot something woman in a bowler hat and multicolored shawl to make you feel happy! 
The week consisted of a zillion presentations and tests as well as my last two trips to Villa El Salvador. On Wednesday evening I went out for my last visit to the Mujer Emprende program and public hours. I was able to become the first customer for the Mujer Emprende program when I bought one of the dolls they have been working to make for my doll-collecting grandmother! The goal of the program is to teach the women handicraft and business skills so that they can eventually raise enough money to start their own small business together. It's an amazing program and I was happy to help start it off! 
After two finals and a paper due Thursday, I came home and went to bed before 6 p.m. Yes, I am 97 years old. It was fantastic. 

On Friday morning, Martha and I taught our last computer class! We taught the kids internet research and note-taking skills this week and it was awesome to see how much some of them have learned. It was a holiday so we didn't get to teach English this week, but received some wonderful (and gigantic!) thank-you notes from the kids we have been working with at Buena Esperanza! I was sad to say goodbye to Villa El Salvador-- it's been such a good experience working with Building Dignity and learning about the people of this amazing sand dune city. 
Friday afternoon my host aunt decided to take me to La Punta-- a historic neighborhood in Callao that is basically the furthest tip of Lima into the ocean. My two aunts came with and we walked around the area, seeing the ocean from both sides! It was pretty and so nice to spend a little more time with the people who have become my second family. 
In the evening, Ava and her visiting Guatemalan boyfriend were kind enough to host a bbq at their hostel! I have not eaten a burger in ages, but it tasted strangely delicious last night! Sitting out on the rooftop laughing with friends and listening to a guitar-- this is what I'm going to miss. I have made some of the most amazing friends here and I can only hope our mutual wanderlust will help us cross paths in the near future! 
And today... today I jumped off a cliff and learned to fly. I had planned a studious day and was diligently working when Ava called to let me know that it was not entirely cloudy and that the paragliders were active! I had almost given up on this Peruvian goal thanks to uncooperative winds, but as soon as she called I hopped in a taxi and headed to the cliffs! I thought I would be at least a teensy bit scared as I jumped off 150 foot cliffs with only a parachute and an instructor to keep me from plummeting to the ground, but instead I felt weightless. Peaceful. Joyful. The view was to die for-- the city stretching out in one direction, the sea in another-- but what was most amazing about this experience was just the pure joy of it! It was a wonderful, wonderful way to say goodbye to my temporary home, to conquer a fear, and to fulfill a childhood dream. So yes, Peter Pan, I can fly :) 

Friday, June 29, 2012

How Lucky

How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard. -- Winne the Pooh 

Done with classes. Done with finals. Done with volunteering in Villa El Salvador. Done with group outings. Done with the lavanderia and the fotocopiadora (no tears there!) Done with Lima. 

Wow.

I am so sad to go, and so happy to return home. Such conflicting emotions, but overall I am just so GRATEFUL that I have had this wonderful, amazing, big, fat experience. So grateful that I've gotten to know some of the most amazing people ever and some of the most beautiful places in the world. So grateful to be reminded what adventuring feels like and why I'm here. So grateful that I have a loving family to return to and a loving family to leave behind. 

And, of course, so grateful I have a chance to see these wonderful girls before I go! 


Thursday, June 21, 2012

Enjoying the Journey


It happens all the time.
Curiosities become obsessions.
Outings become overnighters.
Pastimes become passions.
This is how journeys begin. 


The last few weeks of my study abroad program are speeding by at lightening speed and it’s very bittersweet! I’m getting so excited to see my family, Andy, and my friends from home, to eat some good U.S. food, and to sleep in my own bed! However, I am going to miss Peru, all the adventures available here, and the amazing people I’ve gotten to know SO MUCH! While I’ve loved getting to know 14 other students from 14 different universities and from all over the U.S., it’s sad knowing we won’t all be in the same place anytime soon!

Besides preparing for the upcoming goodbyes, I’ve been busily exploring a bit more of Peru. A couple of weekends ago, I headed to Iquitos, a city located deep in the Amazon rainforest and completely unreachable by car! We arrived on a Friday morning after a very early flight, drove through the city and then took a boat out to reach our lodge! We got to see the point where the Amazon River meets up with the River Nane—you can actually see a dividing line between the black Nane and the muddy, brown Amazon. Our lodge was very far-removed from anything and we lucked out as the only guests for the weekend! Our tour guide and friends were really nice and helpful all weekend. We really couldn’t have asked for a better experience!


We did all kinds of different things over the course of the weekend. We hiked through the muddy jungle learning about different medicinal and edible plants, got to hold a sloth and wrap an anaconda around our necks, went fishing for piranhas, did a nightwalk through the jungle where we saw lots of spiders and the largest species of frog in the world, visited a few small river towns where we met local kids and went swimming in a backyard creek, saw both a gray and a pink river dolphin, went on several boat rides, saw an electric eel, went swimming in the Amazon, saw the largest lily pads in the world, and visited and danced with the nearby Bora tribe! It was that busy and that awesome!


After returning from that crazy weekend, I had a typical week of school and volunteering. I spent Wednesday night and all day Thursday doing interviews for my final projects and my honors thesis back home! It was really interesting to talk to the women of Villa El Salvador, learning more about their lives and the amazing things many of them have been able to do. Some of the women are single mothers working to support their children, many participate in local organizations, and several have served as leaders in their community helping to establish this city built through land invasions and pure determination.


On Friday, the whole IFSA-Butler group headed to El Carmen near Chincha in Ica. The weekend was really relaxing and it was great to spend some more time with the whole group. We ate some good food, went swimming in the pool, played with a couple of friendly dogs, learned to play the cajones (traditional afro-peruvian drums made out of wooden boxes), attemped to learn some afro-peruvian dances, and spent some time talking about our return to the U.S. and reminiscing on the amazing semester we have had. One of my favorite parts of the weekend was sitting in a circle sharing good memories and kind thoughts about each person. It was a nice opportunity to tell all of my group members how much they have meant to me and it was also nice to hear what others thought about me—some things that I have heard before and others that are ways in which I have changed over the course of the semester.


Now I’m back in Lima for my last week of classes! Starting to feel a little stressed because in the next eleven days I have to do: 3 final exams, 3 final papers, and a final presentation. Yikes! But there are also lots of fun things on the horizon: goodbye celebrations this weekend, the Inti Raymi festival, and heading back to Pampamarca, Cusco to visit my favorite little girls at the Casa Hogar María de Nazaret! Still so many amazing experiences to add to a very, very full semester! I can’t believe it’s almost over, but I also know it’s a semester I will never forget!